Would you get offended about Potluck?

Wow, are you kidding!!! yeah that's pretty bad, I did have a thought though.....do you think that she is planning a shower for you, a surprise shower, and maybe just backed out of your shower because of this?? I mean, it's a thought right. I understand how upset you must be. Did you happen to ask her why she backed out, maybe you should talk to her and find out what's up.