Could i be pregnant?

I have been on birth control and stop taking it in August after my honeymoon. My last period was November 14 and when i wasn't on the pill i never had regular periods so it could be just my period it late. Lately i have been feeling bloated for the past week and sometime i feel nause never vomitting and just today my felt sore a little. Me and my husband always use a condom and he leaves it in even though we use a codom. I been wanting to get pregnant but my husband don't right now and people tell me that when you want to be pregnant you might feel these symtoms but not be is that true? I feel like i have been eating more than usual and one night i woke up hurting in my stomach and up to my chest. I have been usually the bathroom a lot more and not meaning peeing i have been having bale movement more than usual. Could i be pregnant or could be that i just really want to be that i am feeling these symtoms and i proably am not?