Ive been diagnosed with cervical cancer?

-i went for my smear and was told it was abnormal so went to hospital they said it was cin3 and i had cone biopsy (laser). i have since been told that i hve cervical cancer in stage 1. each stage has 4 parts if i remember mine is the second part of stage one. i have told hospital rather than go thru all treatment i wouls rather have a hysterectomy. they have to send off more tests to see where this cancer is and if they do a hysterectomy if they will have to remove my ovaries as well. I have been blessed with 4 beautiful children i have also had 5 haemorraghes so if i dont see another piece of blood in my life i would be happy, so i thought the hysterectomy through, o got to think of the children i have got not the onesi cant have so to speak. has anyone been through this and is m cancer stage at a bad stage........ someone please help explain. im confused a bit